Lifestyle

Too ambitious? It’s never a bad thing! Unless…

  I am a very ambitious person, always ready for new chapters in my life, ready to change the world and make the big things happen.   What If sometimes ambitions make life a bit more complicated? That what happens with me sometimes. I have so many dreams and goals as well as “I want this”,  “I want to achieve that”, etc., that I become anxious and nervous.   The question I ask myself quite often is – How to be patient then? My ambitions can be my own enemy from time to time.   Time flies too fast and I want too many things to happen now! Not tomorrow, not in a week, but now. Or when I set up some of the goals, I want to achieve them with not very realistic deadlines. Especially when I find myself looking at someone’s social media.. oh that’s a trap! Everything seems to be too easy for the others. And it looks like …

Self Growth

Become a best friend to yourself. Part 1

    I had a thought several months ago that I am arguing with myself quite often. I used to have conflict situations inside me on a daily basis all the time, I still do sometimes, but at least now I work on it and know how to cope with that OR who to talk to help me understand myself. It’s a funny thing though, talking to someone to start to feel yourself better but I will talk about it later on.   I’ll start with the story. I dreamed to be a dancer all my life. I love music, I enjoy dancing and as soon as I hear the track which somehow moves deeply, I instantly have tons of ideas for some short choreography, or I literally imagine how would a dance look like for video shooting. I mean, my creativity is on it! But I am too self-critical. I do hate an inability to create a dance, have …

Self Growth

How to get a lot of things done and don’t get nuts!

  I am sure you also felt like you have no strength and everything what happens to you now is too much. Too many things of the same time, some urgent problems you have to resolve, people you have to meet, important trips etc. At the same time, we all want some time and space for ourselves.   1. Make a list of all things you need to accomplish this week/month. When you have a full picture it’s easier to prioritize within your list. Now you know what can’t wait and should be done ASAP and what you can temporarily forget about and do it later.   2. Cross ones you’ve finished! It helps to visualise your progress and you can see actually how much you already did!   3. Appreciate small wins. Instead of saying: “I haven’t done that much” / “Didn’t do so well” / “Still super overloaded”, say to yourself: “OK! I actually accomplished 15% of everything …

Self Growth

Waiting and Patience

I am not the most patient person (unfortunately!). Most of the time I barely handle my emotions caused by delays. Even now I am literally writing this post from the airport while I am waiting for delayed Ryanair flight to the UK.🙄 If you are like me and you hate waiting, welcome on board! I’ll tell you what are the things to do to cope with your emotions and turn potentially wasted time into productive. Last minute plans changes? No big deal! Make sure you adjust your plans to avoid the mess. Stay busy! Find some other things to so while you are waiting. Read a book, write a blog, socialize with people, make some useful research…etc. Stay positive! Yup! As simple as it is – keep a positive attitude. Even If this delay ’cause many other changes in your plans, it is not the end of the world! You can spend this time being proactive, positive and even turn it into fun! …